Monday, January 17, 2011

Safe Sex for Youth

Hello!  So this isn’t exactly a relationship question, but I thought you might be willing to answer it regardless. I am a twenty year old student from Montreal (Canada), who got out of a long term relationship about six months ago. Originally I thought I was interested in finding a new boyfriend, but when the opportunity presented itself I realized that I’m enjoying my single life way too much, and have neither the time nor the energy needed for a relationship. However, to be quite honest, I do miss sex. My friends and I often go out to a small club and many of the guys there are very attractive, my age, and from my school. I would like to have a one night stand with one of these guys but am worried about the safety issues involved. Montreal is a large city and my university has over 40,000 students, so the fact that we go to the same school does not put these guys into the relatively safer category of acquaintances or “friends of friends” I feel uncomfortable bringing a guy back to my apartment due to my rather conservative roommates. Any advice on how a fun but safe one night stand. Thanks,
-Anonymous
PS: I looked on the internet for advice about this but most of it seemed to revolve around how not to get attached to the guy, or how to make your one night stand into a relationship. I just want practical “how not to get myself murdered” advice, obviouslly I am aware that there is always a risk.
Dear Anonymous,
As you say, there’s always a very real risk; but I think people often use the risks involved as an excuse to condescend people who practice casual sex, or who don’t want relationships, without revealing their moral feelings.  Of course there are risks.  Skiing is pretty risky, too.  But in both cases, you can minimize the risks by keeping a level head and taking precautions.
It sounds like you’re interested in heterosexual sex, based on your PS.  The most important thing to remember is that nearly all men can physically overpower nearly all women.  As a feminist, I hate admitting it, but it’s true, and we’re not safe until we recognize that.  The general difference in strength is exacerbated by the fact that men have better upper body strength and control than women.  So you’re not safe just because a guy is smallish, or looks flabby, or has a low alcohol tolerance.
The first risk is getting drugged by one of these guys.  I’m ashamed to admit that I kind of thought drugged drinks were an urban legend — until someone gave me one.  I was at a band party at a bar with a friend of mine (who had actually spent the previous night in the hospital with an allergic reaction) and I let this older guy buy us drinks.  Fortunately, I drank mine slowly enough to realize, a third of the way through, that there was no way I should have felt so woozy from the few sips I’d had, and I grabbed my friend, who was looking pale, and got a cab to drop us both off at home.  I got through Beverly Hills Cop(s) I and II before the sensation went away.  So yeah: don’t let anyone you don’t know buy you a drink, watch your drink, swap drinks with you, et cetera.  And if you do, take small sips.
I totally know what you mean about roommates; everybody hates the loud couple, and nobody wants to be the roommate who can’t come home until 3.  Since you say your roommates are really conservative, it makes sense not to go back to your own place.  But in spite of the embarrassment and the awkward next-mornings,  it’s always safer to go somewhere more public, where someone could hear you in a worst-case-scenario.  For example, you could go home with a guy who lives in a dorm.  Once you leave with someone, always tell someone where you are.  Text a friend with the address when you get there.
Thirdly, never go home with anyone who exhibits aggressive behavior of any kind towards you, the bartender, or anyone else.  And never go home with someone who makes you uncomfortable or pushes your boundaries in any way.  It’s not that these things mean they’re bad people; everyone has rough days and says the wrong thing from time to time.  But it’s not a good indicator that you can trust them when you’re alone.
It’s also really important not to go home with someone if you’re already too drunk to pay attention to these things.  Even if you really want to.
Lastly, I feel obligated to remind you that you’re always safer with acquaintances or friends of friends.  But you knew that.
Have fun and be safe!

Essential Facts on Safe Sex

Why safe sex is important

Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are infectious conditions transmitted through sexual activity - vaginal, oral or anal. Some of the STDs can be easily treated but unfortunately there is no cure for many of them, and these incurable STDs tend to be the most common and longest lasting. Some, for example HIV and hepatitis B, can have serious health consequences.
A person can have any of the STDs without any symptoms. They may therefore be unaware that they have an infection and may be passing it on each time they have sex.

Reducing the risk

The only way to be 100% certain of never getting an STD is never to have sex at all. This means that if you do have sex, you need to consider ways that you can reduce your risk of acquiring an infection (or passing on an STD you may not know you have!) There are various strategies you can use. Some relate to whom you have sex with, others relate to what you do while you are having sex. Choose whichever strategies best suit your situation - they don't all work for everyone.
  • Have an STD check up after sex with a new partner. If you have picked up an infection it may be possible to treat it before complications develop, and the sooner you know you have an STD, the less likely it is that you will unknowingly pass it on to someone else.
  • If you are in a stable relationship and neither you nor your partner have any other sexual partners, you can make sure that sex is safe by both having an STD check up. If all the results are negative (both yours and your partner's) it may be OK to have unprotected sex. You should discuss this with a doctor or health adviser because sometimes extra tests are required.
  • If you have sex with more than one partner or if you often change your partners, one way you can reduce your risk of exposure to an STD is to reduce the number of partners. The more people you have sex with, the more likely it is that one or more of your partners will have an STD.
  • Be especially careful if you have sex with people you don't know well. You are less likely to know if they have an STD or have had a check up recently.
  • Unless you are certain that you and your partner do not have any STDs (i.e. by having a full STD check-up) use safe sex practices when you have sex.

Safe sex practices

Safe sex means not allowing your partner's body fluids (blood, semen, vaginal fluids) into your body and vice versa. It can also mean covering up or avoiding contact with parts of the body that might be infectious (e.g. herpes sores or warts)
With some forms of sex, it's possible to avoid any transfer of body fluids, e.g. massage and mutual masturbation ("hand jobs").
Oral sex carries a lower risk of transmitting most (not all) of the STDs. If you have oral sex, you can reduce the risk of infection by following these guidelines:
  • using condoms (flavoured ones are available!) or dental dams (see below)
  • not getting semen or blood in your mouth
  • avoiding oral sex if you have mouth ulcers or bleeding gums; not brushing your teeth immediately before oral sex
  • if you get cold sores, don't give your partner oral sex when you have an outbreak. (Cold sores are caused by the herpes virus.)
If you have vaginal or anal intercourse, use condoms. They have the added benefit of helping prevent unwanted pregnancy. You can choose condoms which are textured, coloured and flavoured. Some condoms are non-allergenic, for those who have skin reactions or find latex uncomfortable.

Using condoms

Use a good quality condom that conforms to Australian and International Standards. Check the use by date on the packet. Open the packet carefully; don't snag the condom with rings or fingernails. Check which way the condom unrolls.
It is very important to use the condom for the entire time you are having intercourse. Put the condom on before the penis comes into contact with the vagina or anus and only when the penis is hard and erect. Don't unroll the condom before putting it on.
Squeeze the teat on the end of the condom between two fingers (this is to expel the air so there is room for the semen) and hold it against the tip of the penis.
Gently unroll the condom all the way down to the base of the penis. If you don't get it on the first time, throw the condom away and start again.
Use a water soluble lubricant. This is essential for anal intercourse. Rub it on the outside of the condom. The lubricant makes intercourse more comfortable and helps prevent breakage of the condom. Use only water based lubricants such as Wet Stuff, KY, Lubafax, Le Gel, Glyde or Muko.
The penis should be withdrawn immediately after ejaculation with you or your partner holding the rim of the condom to stop any spillage. Slip the condom off carefully.
You can only use a condom once. If you want to have sex again, put on a new condom. Don't flush used condoms down the toilet. Wrap them in paper and put them in a bin.

Looking after condoms

Condoms that break put you at risk. They may be damaged by:
  • Heat: Condoms must be kept in a cool, dry place (i.e. not the glove box of a car).
  • Oil: Oil-based lubricants cause condoms to perish. Never use baby oil, vaseline, petroleum jelly.
  • Teeth: During oral sex teeth may cause the condom to break. Do not use your teeth to open the condom package.
  • Friction: Always use a water-based lubricant to prevent condoms breaking.
  • Expiry date: Always check to make sure the use by date has not expired.

The other barrier for oral sex

Latex barriers or 'dental dams' are squares of ultra-thin latex that can be put over a partner's vulva or anal area during oral sex. Some are thin and silky and come in a variety of flavours. Alternatively you can cut an unrolled condom to the tip and make a latex barrier.

Condoms are available from:

  • supermarkets
  • chemists
  • vending machines
  • Family Planning Association
  • youth services
  • Aboriginal Medical Service
  • AIDS Council
  • sex-worker organisations

All About Safe Sex


Safe sex is defined as "Sexual activity engaged in by people who have taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS." [1] It is also referred to as safer sex, or protected sex, while unsafe sex or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged in without precautions to protect against sexually transmitted infections. Some sources prefer the term safer sex to more precisely reflect the fact that these practices reduce, but do not completely eliminate, the risk of disease transmission.[2]
Safe sex practices became more prominent in the late 1980s as a result of the AIDS epidemic. Promoting safe sex is now one of the aims of sex education. From the viewpoint of society, safe sex can be regarded as a harm reduction strategy aimed at reducing risks.[citation needed]
The risk reduction of safe sex is not absolute; for example the reduced risk to the receptive partner of acquiring HIV from HIV seropositive partners not wearing condoms to compared to when they wear them is estimated to be about a four- to fivefold.[3]
Although some safe sex practices can be used as contraception, most forms of contraception do not protect against all or any STIs; likewise, some safe sex practices, like partner selection and low risk sex behavior, are not effective forms of contraception.

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[edit]Terminology

Recently, and mainly within Canada and the United States, the term safer sex, rather than safe sex, has gained greater use by health workers, reflecting that risk of transmission of sexually transmitted infections in various sexual activities is a continuum rather than a simple dichotomy between risky and safe. However, in most other countries, including the United Kingdom and Australia, the term safe sex is still in common use.[citation needed]
Although "safe sex" is used by individuals to refer to protection against both pregnancy and HIV/AIDS or other STDs' transmission, the term was primarily derived in response to the HIV/AIDS epidemic. It is believed that the term of "safe sex" was used in the professional literature in 1984, in the content of a paper on the psychological effect that HIV/AIDS may have on homosexual men. The term was related with the need to develop educational programs for the group considered at risk, homosexual men. A year later, the same term appeared in an article in theNew York Times. This article emphasized that most specialists advised their AIDS patients to practice safe sex. The concept included limiting the number of sexual partners, using prophylactics, avoiding bodily fluid exchange, and resisting the use of drugs that reduced inhibitions for high-risk sexual behavior.[4] Moreover, in 1985, the first safe sex guidelines were established by the 'Coalition for Sexual Responsibilities'.[who?] According to these guidelines, safe sex was practiced by using condoms also when engaging in anal or oral sex.[citation needed]
Although this term was primarily used in conjunction with the homosexual male population, in 1986 the concept was spread to the general population. Various programs were developed with the aim of promoting safe sex practices among college students. These programs were focused on promoting the use of the condom, a better knowledge about the partner's sexual history and limiting the number of sexual partners. The first book on this subject appeared in the same year. The book was entitled "Safe Sex in the Age of AIDS", it had 88 pages and it described both positive and negative approaches to the sexual life.[citation needed] Sexual behavior could be either safe (kissinghugging,massagebody-to-body rubbingmutual masturbationexhibitionism and voyeurismtelephone sexsado-masochism without bruising or bleeding, and use of separate sex toys); possibly safe (use of condoms); and unsafe.[4]
In 1997, specialists in this matter promoted the use of condoms as the most accessible safe sex method (besides abstinence) and they called for TV commercials featuring condoms. During the same year, the Catholic Church in the United States issued their own "safer sex" guidelines on which condoms were listed, though two years later the Vatican urged chastity and heterosexual marriage, attacking the American Catholic bishops' guidelines.
A study carried out in 2006 by Californian specialists showed that the most common definitions of safe sex are condom use (68% of the interviewed subjects), abstinence (31.1% of the interviewed subjects), monogamy (28.4% of the interviewed subjects) and safe partner (18.7% of the interviewed subjects).[4]
"Safer sex" is thought to be a more aggressive term which may make it more obvious to individuals that any type of sexual activity carries a certain degree of risk.
The term "safe love" has also been used, notably by the French Sidaction in the promotion of men's underpants incorporating a condom pocket and including the red ribbon symbol in the design, which were sold to support the charity.

[edit]Focus on condoms and HIV control

Much attention has focused on controlling HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, through the use of barrier protection for the penis, especiallycondoms. However, the HIV is a delicate virus, so protections focused on HIV may not protect against other STIs, which can also be transmitted through other areas of the body where the pathogen (virus or bacteria) has higher prevalence and resistance.

[edit]Safe sex precautions

Shunga print by Kunisada depicting masturbation

[edit]Avoiding physical contact

Known as autoeroticism, solitary sexual activity is relatively safe. Masturbation, the simple act of stimulating one's own genitalia, is safe so long as contact is not made with other people's bodily fluids. Some activities, such as "phone sex" and "cybersex", that allow for partners to engage in sexual activity without being in the same room, eliminating the risks involved with exchanging bodily fluids.[5]

[edit]Non-penetrative sex

Watercolor of manual stimulation of the penis, Johann Nepomuk Geiger, 1840.
A range of sex acts, sometimes called "outercourse", can be enjoyed with significantly reduced risks of infection or pregnancy. U.S. President Bill Clinton's surgeon general, Dr. Joycelyn Elders, tried to encourage the use of these practices among young people, but her position encountered opposition from a number of outlets, including the White House itself, and resulted in her being fired by President Clinton in December 1994.[6][7][8]
Non-penetrative sex includes practices such as kissing, mutual masturbation, rubbing or stroking and, according to the Health Department of Western Australia, this sexual practice may prevent pregnancy and most STDs. However, non-penetrative sex does not protect against infections that can be transmitted skin-to-skin such as herpes and genital warts.[citation needed]

[edit]Barrier protection

Various protective devices are used to avoid contact with bloodvaginal fluidsemen or other contaminant agents (like skin, hair and shared objects) during sexual activity. Sexual activityusing these devices is called protected sex.
  • Condoms cover the penis during sexual activity. They are most frequently made of latex, and can also be made out of synthetic materials including polyurethane.
  • Female condoms are inserted into the vagina prior to intercourse.
  • dental dam (originally used in dentistry) is a sheet of latex used for protection when engaging in oral sex. It is typically used as a barrier between the mouth and the vulva during cunnilingusor between the mouth and the anus during anal–oral sex.
  • Medical gloves made out of latex, vinyl, nitrile, or polyurethane may be used as an makeshift dental dam during oral sex, or to protect the hands during sexual stimulation, such asmasturbation. Hands may have invisible cuts on them that may admit pathogens or contaminate the other body part or partner.
  • Another way to protect against pathogen transmission is the use of protected or properly cleaned dildos and other sex toys. If a sex toy is to be used in more than one orifice or partner, a condom can be used over it and changed when the toy is moved.
When latex barriers are used, oil-based lubrication can break down the structure of the latex and remove the protection it provides.
Condoms (male or female) are used to protect against STIs, and used with other forms of contraception to improve contraceptive effectiveness. For example, simultaneously using both the male condom and spermicide (applied separately, not pre-lubricated) is believed to reduce perfect-use pregnancy rates to those seen among implant users.[9] However, if two condoms are used simultaneously (male condom on top of male condom, or male condom inside female condom), this increases the chance of condom failure.[10][11]
Proper use of barriers, such as condoms, depends on the cleanliness of surfaces of the barrier, handling can pass contamination to and from surfaces of the barrier unless care is taken.
Studies of latex condom performance during use reported breakage and slippage rates varying from 1.46% to 18.60%.[12] Condoms must be put on before any bodily fluid could be exchanged, and they must be used also during oral sex.[13]
Female condoms are made of two flexible polyurethane rings and a loose-fitting polyurethane sheath.[12] According to laboratory testing, female condoms are effective in preventing the leakage of body fluids and therefore the transmission of STDs and HIV. Several studies show that between 50% and 73% of women who have used this type of condoms during intercourse find them as or more comfortable than male condoms. On the other hand, acceptability of these condoms among the male population is somewhat less, at approximately 40%. Because the cost of female condoms is higher than male condoms, there have been studies carried out with the aim of detecting whether they can be reused. Research has shown that structural integrity of polyurethane female condoms is not damaged during up to five uses if it is disinfected with water andhousehold bleach. However, regardless of this study, specialists still recommend that female condoms are used only once and then discarded.

[edit]Other precautions

Acknowledging that it is usually impossible to have entirely risk-free sex with another person, proponents of safe sex recommend that some of the following methods be used to minimize the risks of STI transmission and unwanted pregnancy.
  • Immunization against various viral infections that can be transmitted sexually. The most common vaccines are HPV vaccine, which protects against the most common types of human papillomavirus that cause cervical cancer, and the Hepatitis B vaccine. Immunization before initiation of sexual activity increases effectiveness.
  • Male Circumcision and HIV : Some recent research, and advice from the World Health Organisation (WHO), has suggested that circumcision of males can be useful in preventing the spread of HIV infection in some countries. Male circumcision is acknowledged by the WHO as a preventative measure against HIV transmission from women to men. African studies have found that circumcision can reduce the rate of transmission of HIV to men by up to 60%.[14] Some advocacy groups dispute these findings.[15][16] However, at least in sub-Saharan Africa, condom use and behavior change programs are estimated to be more efficient and much more cost effective than surgical procedures.[17]
  • Periodic STI testing has been used to reduce STIs in Cuba and among pornographic film actors. Cuba implemented a program of mandatory testing and quarantine early in the AIDS epidemic.[18] In the US pornographic film industry, many production companies will not hire actors without tests for Chlamydia, HIV and Gonorrhea that are no more than 30 days old-and tests for other STIs no more than 6 months old. AIM Medical foundation claims that program of testing has reduced the incidence of sexually transmitted infection to 20% of that of the general population.[19] Douching with soap and water disrupts the vaginal flora it might increase risk of infection.[20][21]
  • Monogamy or polyfidelity, practiced faithfully, is very safe (as far as STIs are concerned) when all partners are non-infected. However, many monogamous people have been infected with sexually transmitted diseases by partners who are sexually unfaithful, have used injection drugs, or were infected by previous sexual partners; the same risks apply to polyfidelitous people, who face higher risks depending on how many people are in the polyfidelitous group.
  • For those who are not monogamous, reducing the number of one's sexual partners, particularly anonymous sexual partners, may also reduce one's potential exposure to STIs. Similarly, one may restrict one's sexual contact to a community of trusted individuals - this is the approach taken by some pornographic actors and other non-monogamous people.
  • When selecting a sexual partner, some characteristics can increase the risks for contracting sexually transmitted diseases.[22] These include an age discordance of more than five years;[22] having an STI in the past year;[22] problems with alcohol;[22] having had sex with other people in the past year.[22]
  • Communication with one's sexual partner(s) makes for greater safety. Before initiating sexual activities, partners may discuss what activities they will and will not engage in, and what precautions they will take. This can reduce the chance of risky decisions being made "in the heat of passion".
  • If a person is sexually active with a number of partners, regular sexual health check-ups by a doctor, and on noticing unusual symptoms seeking prompt medical advice; HIV and other infectious agents can be either asymptomatic or involve nonspecific symptoms which on their own can be misdiagnosed.[23][24]

[edit]Limitations

While the use of condoms can reduce transmission of HIV and other infectious agents, it does not do so completely. One study has suggested condoms might reduce HIV transmission by 85% to 95%; effectiveness beyond 95% was deemed unlikely because of slippage, breakage, and incorrect use.[25] It also said, "In practice, inconsistent use may reduce the overall effectiveness of condoms to as low as 60–70%".[25]p. 40.
During each act of anal intercourse, the risk of the receptive partner acquiring HIV from HIV seropositive partners not using condoms is about 1 in 120. Among people using condoms, the receptive partner's risk declines to 1 in 550, a four- to fivefold reduction.[3] Where the partner's HIV status is unknown, "Estimated per-contact risk of protected receptive anal intercourse with HIV-positive and unknown serostatus partners, including episodes in which condoms failed, was two thirds the risk of unprotected receptive anal intercourse with the comparable set of partners."[3]p. 310.

[edit]Ineffective methods

Most methods of contraception, except for certain forms of "outercourse" and the barrier methods, are not effective at preventing the spread of STIs. This includes the birth control pillsvasectomytubal ligationperiodic abstinence and all non-barrier methods of pregnancy prevention.
The spermicide Nonoxynol-9 has been claimed to reduce the likelihood of STI transmission. However a recent study by the World Health Organization [26] has shown that Nonoxynol-9 is an irritant and can produce tiny tears in mucous membranes, which may increase the risk of transmission by offering pathogens more easy points of entry into the system. Condoms with Nonoxynol-9 lubricant do not have enough spermicide to increase contraceptive effectiveness and are not to be promoted.[citation needed]
The use of diaphragm or contraceptive sponge provides some women with better protection against certain sexually transmitted diseases,[27]but however they are not effective for all STIs.
The hormonal protecting methods are by no means effective against transmission of STDs even though they are more than 95% effective against unwanted pregnancies. Most common hormonal methods are the oral contraceptive pill, depoprogesterone, the vaginal ring and the patch.
The copper intrauterine device and the hormonal intrauterine device provide an up to 99% protection against pregnancies but no protection at all in what concerns the STIs. Women with copper intrauterine device present however a greater risk of being exposed to any type of STI, especially gonorrhea or chlamydia.
Coitus interruptus (or "pulling out"), in which the penis is removed from the vagina, anus, or mouth before ejaculation, is not safe sex and can result in STI transmission. This is because of the formation of pre-ejaculate, a fluid that oozes from the urethra before actual ejaculation, may contain pathogens such as HIV.[28][29] Additionally, the microbes responsible for some diseases, including genital warts and syphilis, can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact, even if the partners never engage in oral, vaginal, or anal sexual intercourse.

[edit]Abstinence

Sexual abstinence is sometimes promoted as a way to avoid the risks associated with sexual contact, though STIs may also be transmitted through non-sexual means. HIV may be transmitted through contaminated needles used in tattooingbody piercing, or injections. Medical or dental procedures using contaminated instruments can also spread HIV, while some health-care workers have acquired HIV through occupational exposure to accidental injuries with needles.[30]
It is often recommended that those using abstinence have condoms available as a backup for protection against STIs and pregnancy.[31]
Some groups, notably some evangelical Christians and the Roman Catholic Church, oppose sex outside marriage and object to safe-sex education programs because they believe that providing such education promotes promiscuityVirginity pledges and sexual abstinenceeducation programs are often promoted in lieu of contraceptives and safe-sex education programs. This may entail exposing some teenagersto increased risk of sexually transmitted infections, because about 60 percent of teenagers who pledge virginity until marriage do engage in pre-marital sex and are then one-third less likely to use contraceptives than their peers who have received more conventional sexeducation.[32]

[edit]Anal sex

Unprotected anal penetration is a high risk activity regardless of sexual orientation. Research suggests that although gay men are more likely to engage in anal sex, heterosexual couples are more likely not to use condoms when doing so.[33]
Anal sex is a higher risk activity than vaginal intercourse, because the thin tissues of the anus and rectum can be easily damaged; this includes by the use of anal toys. Slight injuries can allow the passage of bacteria and viruses, including HIV. Anal stimulation with a sex toy requires similar safety measures to anal penetration with a penis, in this case using a condom on the sex toy in a similar way. Oil-based lubricants damage latex, and water-based lubricants are available instead, and non-latex condoms are available for people who are allergic to latex (e.g., polyurethane condoms that are compatible with both oil-based and water-based lubricants).[citation needed]
Research shows that the anal area is equipped with many erotic nerve endings in both men and women. So it is not surprising that many couples (including many heterosexual couples) derive pleasure from some form of 'bottom stimulation'.[34]
The main risks which individuals are exposed to when performing anal sex are the transmission of HIV, HPV, Hepatitis C and A andEscherichia coli. In order to make sure the anal sex session is safe, the couple must ensure that the anal area is clean and the bowel empty and the partner on whom anal penetration occurs should be able to relax.
Regardless of whether anal penetration occurs by using a finger or the penis, the condom is the best barrier method to prevent getting infected with a STI. Anal sex should be avoided by couples in which one of the partners has been diagnosed with an STD until the treatment has proven to be effective.
Safety measures are required also when anal sex occurs between heterosexual partners. Apart from the STD transmission risks, other risks such as infection are high regarding anal intercourse. It is important that the man washes and cleans his penis after anal intercourse if he intends to penetrate the vagina. The reason is that bacteria from the rectum are easily transferred to the vagina which may cause vaginal infections.[35]
Since the rectum can be easily damaged, the use of lubricants is highly recommended even when penetration occurs by using the finger. Especially for beginners, using a condom on the finger is at the same time a protection measure against any type of STD and a lubricant source. Most condoms are lubricated and they allow less painful and easier penetration.
When anal-oral contact occurs, protection is required since this is a risky sexual behavior in which illnesses as Hepatitis A or STDs can be easily transmitted. The dental dam or the plastic wrap are effective protection means whenever anilingus is performed.

[edit]Sex toys

Putting a condom on a sex toy provides better sexual hygiene and prevents transmission of infections if the sex toy is shared, provided the condom is replaced when used by a different partner. Some sex toys are made of porous materials, and pores retain viruses and bacteria, which makes it necessary to clean sex toys (plugs, anal vibrators) thoroughly, preferably with use of cleaners specifically for sex toys. Glass sex toys are non-porous and more easily sterilized between uses.[citation needed]
In cases in which one of the partners is treated for an STD, it is recommended that the couple will not use sex toys until the treatment has proved to be effective.
All sex toys have to be properly cleaned after use. The way in which a sex toy is cleaned varies on the type of material it is made of. Most of the sex toys come with advice on the best way to clean and store them and these instructions should be carefully followed.[36] A sex toy must be cleaned not only when it is shared with other individuals but also when it is used on different parts of the body (such as mouth, vagina or anus). Also, if a condom is used, it should be changed if the sex toy is used on different parts of the body. Some sex toys are safe to Boiling but not all of them so one should check first the cleaning indication on the specific toy. However, the toys for anal stimulation require more careful cleaning.
Any possessor of a sex toy should regularly check it for scratches or breaks that can be breeding ground for bacteria. It is best if the damaged sex toy is replaced by a new undamaged one. Even more hygiene protection should be considered by pregnant women when using sex toys. Some of the sex toys (like whips or chains) are specially designed to cause mild pain or to damage the skin. Sharing any type of sex toy that may draw blood is strongly not recommended.
In any case, the best way to prevent being infected or infecting someone with a STD is by using protection during sexual intercourses and by not changing partners very often.[37]

[edit]See also

[edit]References

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